What If You Decided Today’s The Day EVERYTHING Changes...

10-15-2020 blog

The struggle. The stress. The striving.

All of it.

What today’s the day you realize it doesn’t have to be this way anymore.

That it truly gets to be easy.

That making money isn’t so damn hard.

That struggle really is a choice we make.

What if you decided you’re done.

With the stress.

The bullshit.

The overwhelm.

What if I told you it doesn’t have to be this way.

Ever again.

That you never have to do this thing alone.

Ever again.

That it doesn’t have to be so damn hard.

Ever again.

What if I told you building a business could actually be fun.

That you could actually live the life you’ve always wanted.

You know.

That life.

The one you’ve locked away so deep down inside you almost don’t even know what it is anymore.

That the thing you’ve committed to.

The shadow life you’ve worked so hard to create.

The things you do because you feel like you have to.

Because you’re afraid of letting everyone down.

Because you’re afraid of losing what feels comfortable.

But is actually killing you.

That all of that could change in an instant.




Would you believe me?

See. Here’s the thing.

A little over two years ago I was dying in a marriage.

But I was committed. To my marriage. To my life.

To my suffering.

I had gone all in. And I’m not a fucking quitter.

Can you relate?

I had made my decision. I decided I would stay until death do us part.

No matter what.

But what I didn’t realize was just because I started something didn’t mean I had to finish it.

Just because I headed down a path didn’t mean I had to stay on it.

Just because I had invested 10 years of my life trying to be someone I’m not just to make things work.

Didn’t mean I had to do it for one more day.

That I could walk away.

That things could change.

That it didn’t mean I was a failure.

I remember that day when I knew I would die in that marriage.

That my life was over.

That I was a mom with two 4-year-olds. A 1-year-old. And a failing marriage.

And that my dreams.

The ones I kept locked deep down inside. The ones I knew I was here for. The ones I didn’t want anyone to take away from me.

Were gone.

I remember looking around at my marriage. My life. The thing I’d worked so hard for and thinking.

I’m going to die here.

That was Thursday morning.

That afternoon my best friend told me that I didn’t have to live that way anymore.

That she would help me.

That things could change.

It didn’t feel ok. It felt like giving up. It felt like betraying my husband.

It felt like failure.

But I was willing to try. To take a break.

To be open to living another way.

That was Thursday.

On Friday morning something happened. A sign. That it was time to go.

And I made a decision.

Saturday morning the kids and I were leaving...with or without her help.

And that’s where my new story began.

The next day we started our journey back to the life of my dreams.

The one I’m here to live.

The one I hid deep down inside for so long.

With nothing but a mini van. Some diapers. 3 babies. A laptop. My phone. My best friend and a dollhouse.

I left the life I had fought so hard to keep. The one I fought so hard to make work.

To become the thing I swore I’d never be.

A single mom on welfare.

And that was the beginning.

2 years later I’m here.

Writing to you from my penthouse. Watching the sun coming up over the city.

I’m writing to you from the life I always wanted but never knew was possible.

The one I never wanted but found to be exactly what I’m here for.

I’m a single mom.


I have three babies I never thought I wanted to have.


It was hard after I left that marriage. We were homeless. And I had to rebuild my life.


But now. Now.

It was all worth it.

And I know that becoming the one thing I swore I’d never be. The thing that kept me locked inside a marriage that was killing me.

The one thing I feared.

Was the thing that HAD to happen.

The thing that changed everything.

And it all came from a decision.

That I would be willing to do things differently.

That I would be willing to stop fighting so damn hard to defend a life that wasn’t really mine.

That I would let someone come alongside me. And help me get there.

That it didn’t have to be this way one more day. And that I didn’t have to do this alone.

Because the truth is friend.


And I mean everything.

Can change in an instant.

If you’re ready to let it be easy. Ready to live the life you’re here to live. Ready to go all in on the madness of being you.

Ready to stop trying to do it alone.

I’m here to help.

I’m making space for ONE woman to join me on this journey. One woman who is ready to let it be easy. One woman who is tired of the struggle.

One woman who is ready to take her business and life to the next level now.

Without all the stress. Without all the striving. Without all the bullshit. Without all the overwhelm.

One woman.

Who’s ready to change everything.

If it’s you message me right now.

The waitlist is now open.

If you feel the call. I’m here for you.

Your soul already knows.

I see you. I believe in you. And you do not have to do this alone.


Mindy 💕


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